Welham Girls' School

Have you ever caught yourself thinking over what you think? Replaying 2-day-old conversations, dissecting your feelings, or maybe questioning yourself about why that question popped up in your head. If it is so with you, society labels you to be an overthinker, a word which has gained a negative side to itself over the years. However, this isn’t just a problem because you’re just being metacognitive.
Metacognition is the awareness of your own thought process. It is like your brain stepping out, arms crossed, watching and analyzing your thoughts go by as if binge-watching your personal Netflix drama. Though it can feel exhausting sometimes, to feel and think everything too deeply, it is a sign of deep reflection, a trait you share with the greatest philosophers of all time. 

Overthinkers don’t just think, they observe their thinking, asking themselves, “Why did I ask that?”, "What does that say about me?", or "Is my reaction logical or emotional?". This is not at all being indecisive about your actions and thoughts, it is something much deeper, it is philosophical self-inquiry. Where most people tend to accept reality as it is, overthinkers poke it, question it, and try to understand the “why” behind the “what.” That's exactly what philosophers like Plato, Descartes, and Kierkegaard did- examining the mind, morality, and meaning with obsessive details. 

It is not at all wrong to say that sometimes things may spiral around because not every deep dive leads to clarity. However, the very act of being aware of your thoughts, analyzing them, and trying to make sense of your own brain? That’s metacognition. And that’s powerful.  So no, you’re not “too much.” You’re just an unsung philosopher in a world that favors speed over thought. Own it. Nurture it. Be proud. Because the ability to understand your own mind? 
That’s the beginning of real wisdom.